The Secret to Wedding Photos That Actually Feel Like You

Weddings are filled with unforgettable milestones—the first kiss, the vows, the walk down the aisle. But as a wedding photographer, I’ve learned that the photos my couples treasure most often come in the in-between.

It’s the flower girl nervously fidgeting with her sash before walking down the isle. The bride and the groom the moment they are alone and just realizing they are married. A mom tearing up watching her son say his vows. Or a soft hand squeeze between the grandparents who have been married for 40 years watching their granddaughter say "I Do".

These moments aren’t on your timeline. But they’re what bring your story to life. And you should feel confident that your wedding photographer can catch them.

That is what we are here for.

The Beauty You Didn’t Plan For

While posed portraits are beautiful and necessary, it’s the unplanned moments that show the heart of the day. The ones where you're not performing or waiting for a cue. You're just you—feeling it all.

I've captured fathers pacing with nervous joy waiting for their first look with their daughter, flower girls making silly faces just off camera, and bridesmaids having full blown karaoke sessions in the bridal suite while getting ready. These are the moments that anchor your memory of the day. They’re full of texture, truth, and tenderness. These moments are real, unscripted, and reveal what it felt like to be there—not just what it looked like. When you're flipping through your gallery, it’s these moments that bring the tears, because they mean something.

How to Make Space for In-Between Magic

(And Why Your Photographer Matters)

The most meaningful wedding photos often happen in the spaces between the big events. But those moments aren’t guaranteed to be captured unless your photographer knows how to find them. That’s where I come in. Here’s how to make space for those unscripted, unforgettable shots—and why choosing a photographer who sees them matters:

• Choose a photographer who slows down with you.

  • I don’t just show up and shoot—I arrive early, observe quietly, and allow your day to unfold naturally. I’m not rushing you from shot to shot. I’m reading the room, listening to your energy, and anticipating when a meaningful moment is about to happen.

• Schedule breaks into your timeline.

  • Leave 10–15 extra minutes between key moments—before your first look, after you’re dressed, or before the ceremony. I’ll use that time to step back and document the emotion, movement, and unspoken beauty that makes your day yours.

• Trust your photographer to work candidly.

  • Some of the most powerful images come when no one is posing. I intentionally blend into your day, letting kids be silly, moms be teary, and you be present.

• Work with someone who honors the whole story.

  • It’s not just about the perfect ceremony shot—it’s about the way your flower girl twirls beside you, the way your partner sneaks in a kiss when no one’s looking, and the smile you give your best friend before lining up for the ceremony. I believe those “small” moments are actually the big ones.

Looking for a Photographer Who Sees It All?

I believe photography is more than just capturing what’s planned—it's about preserving what’s felt. The soft glances, nervous hands, joyful tears, and quiet moments in between? I see them. I anticipate them. And I photograph them with care, so you can relive the full story of your day—not just the highlights. If you’re looking for a photographer who notices the magic others might miss, I’d be honored to be that for you. Let’s make something timeless together.